Sometimes...

We can get comfortable with people and that's what causes the problems. Most times you are happy until someone comes along and shows you something different.

SEX BEFORE MARRIAGE

"You came here to spend the whole day with me and you expect us to just sit and stare at each other? I love you and i want to prove that to you....that's why you're my girlfriend".

I'm sure a lot of ladies are familiar with these lines.......

The human body is a gift from a mother and father with a unique identity marking every cell. Human sexuality is our capacity as whole persons to enter into love - giving, life - giving union in and through the body. To attempt to give oneself bodily in sexual intercourse before there is a permanent commitment of marriage undercuts the very meaning of sexuality and body.
One doesn't take a precious gift, present it to someone,

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How can one balance this emotional level?

"There is an optimal emotion level in motivating attitude change; if there is not enough motivation an attitude will not change; if the emotional appeal is overdone, the motivation can be paralyzed thereby preventing attitude change..."
                                               How can one balance this emotional level?